vst3 with another dlls problem

You have to read up on how a dll is loaded on Windows. As far as I know, if you are linking a dll with another dll you have to make sure that the dll you link to is in the search path of the application. As you want your dll to be loaded from any application where your dll is loaded into, you have to load the dll at runtime with LoadLibrary and use GetProcAddress etc.

Cheers,
Arne